Thursday, May 23, 2013

Morton Detective Agency: The Case of the Missing Purse


Matt and I found ourselves directly in the middle of our own crime scene just two weeks ago, little did we know we would be the ones to solve it!

 I was suffering from a bit of “new-mommy-brain” and left my purse in the cart after loading my groceries into the car.  I drove out of the parking lot and less than a minute later realized I had left my purse.  When I returned my purse had disappeared.  It was no longer in the cart and no one had returned it to the store.  I was devastated!  I just kept thinking about all the cards I would have to cancel, all the personal information in the purse, my cell phone, even my work I Phone was in the purse which would cost me hundreds of dollars to replace, not to mention the time to replace all my personal items! 

Once I finally got over my denial and realized my purse had been stolen, I began my drive home only to remember that Matt had recently put the “Find My I Phone” app on all of our Apple products which allowed Matt to track my phone if it was ever lost!  I ran into the apartment yelling Matt “Get your IPad, my purse has been stolen!”  Matt was on it so quickly and we had my purse tracked immediately, traveling down a country road just a few miles outside of town!  We immediately called the Rapid City Police Department.  I believe our exact conversation was “My purse was stolen and I know exactly where it is!”  Police officers were sent to our apartment where they literally “set up camp”.  They had their GPS and maps out, giving coordinates, and following our thief.  They also contacted the grocery store to have them check the video cameras from the parking lot. Unfortunately, they do not have cameras in the parking lot, but we didn’t let that stop us!

*Remember this is Rapid City, SD.  We apologized for taking their time to handle such a petty crime, we thought surely they had bigger fish to fry, but they reported they even do this for missing cats! *
   
The vehicle with my purse eventually stopped at a residence that we pinpointed using Google Earth.  Two police officers left, while Matt and I were given the responsibility to remain in contact with dispatch and update them if and when the purse moved. The purse did move from a shed into a residential home, but other than that remained stationary.  I am so grateful that whoever had my phone did not think to turn it off!

The police officers attempted to talk to someone at the residence but no one answered.  They seemed to think that we could no longer pursue it any further. I must say I was shocked with my reaction to this whole situation. I found the thrill of the chase rather exciting, and I wanted to simply go knock on the door and ask for my purse back, but Matt wouldn’t have it! Even the police officer said it was a shady residence and not to try! If I ever quit my day job, I might look into being a bounty hunter.  *Matt and Lori=Dog and Beth* Knowing that the police were not going to try any longer, I made one last desperate attempt to send messages to both my phones asking the culprit to return the phone to the store and we would not press charges.  No luck.

Regardless, Matt and I decided we were not going to give up.  We tracked them through the night and when we awoke the next morning the purse had moved to a local business in town. We assumed he had taken the purse with him to his place of work, maybe left it in his car.  When we tracked the address down it was at “Pack Rat Palace” which was essentially storage units.  Call us crazy, but we got in the car and headed straight to Pack Rat Palace, not quite sure what we were going to do when we got there.  We called the police on our drive there to let them know the purse had moved and that we were going after it.  They were willing to send an officer to assist, but didn’t seem hopeful.

Once we got to Pack Rat Palace, an officer met us who stated that a man just called the police station reporting that he had found a missing purse.  The man worked at the business across from Pack Rat Palace.  Eventually, we met up with this man who returned my purse with all the contents still inside including my work IPhone! I was so relieved! 

The man who had the purse reported that he had found it in the shopping cart and had to rush to an appointment, so he took the purse and was attempting to return it to the owner. Whether he was telling the truth or not, we chose not to press charges. We are just grateful he chose to return the purse with all its contents!

So lessons to be learned:


  • I need to stop forgetting my wallet and purse in random places! 
  • Always appreciate your husband’s unique talent for technology and love for electronic gadgets!
  • There really is an app for everything!
  • If you come upon a lost item (purse, wallet, phone, etc.) at a store/restaurant, RETURN IT TO THE STORE/RESTAURANT or the police station. DO NOT TAKE IT HOME WITH YOU, it makes you look bad! 

Thursday, May 9, 2013

Our Newest Addition

               
Although this is technically not an adoption announcement, I think it would make a great one.      That’s right we can finally announce our exciting news!  Parker Matthew Morton was born on March 14, 2013 and he hasn’t left our arms since!  The story of his arrival is truly a story of miracles.  Here is a quick version of the story and of course pictures!
       In 2011 after an unsuccessful round of fertility treatments, Matt and I began looking more seriously into adoption.  We decided to begin taking classes to become foster/adoptive parents through the state.  Unfortunately, about halfway through the classes, we both felt this was not the right path for us at the time.  We returned once again to pursuing fertility options/treatments.
     Throughout the following 6 months, we had a series of very special personal and couple experiences that led us once again to consider adoption, only this time through a private agency.  On Feb. 19, 2013 I was attending a work meeting where a therapist from a local adoption agency was present. I felt impressed to tell her our story and that we were starting to look into adopting privately.  I was hoping she would be able to get us some basic information like cost, beginning paperwork, etc. She took my information and promised to send it on to her colleague in charge of the adoption program.  The very next morning I opened my e-mail to find the biggest surprise of my life!  After hearing about Matt and I as well as our story, they believed they had a birth family that would be the perfect match!  Matt and I happened to be able to read the e-mail together that day. We both looked up at each other and smiled from ear to ear.  This just felt perfectly right. The only catch…the baby was due in three weeks!
     We had to create an adoption profile in less than 24 hours to present to the birth family who would select between our family and several others.  On Feb. 26, after what seemed like an eternity, we received word that we had been selected by the birth family.  Best. News. Ever.  We happened to be in the middle of the Rapid City Regional Airport, but we didn’t care, we celebrated right then and there!
     The next two weeks were full of expedited paperwork including fingerprints, background checks, medical clearances, home studies, etc. as well as preparing for baby! The paperwork process normally takes usually around 6 months, but like the millions of miracles we have lost count of along this journey it was all completed by Parker’s birth! 
     Parker came a few days early on March 14, 2013 where he was immediately flown to NICU in Sioux Falls, SD for concerns regarding blood sugar.  Matt and I drove straight to Sioux Falls that same day where we were able to meet him for the first time.  I can still remember walking through the NICU hallway that night on my way to meet him.  There were many cries from the different rooms in this large NICU, but amongst the cries I could recognize his. I didn’t need a room number, I knew exactly where he was. He was our son.  He was so beautiful!  Nothing can describe what we experienced that night, but both Matt and I would describe it as love at first sight. Parker's blood sugar had been low in part because he was refusing to suck/eat.  When Matt and I arrived by Parker's side, I was able to give Parker his first full feeding and he hasn't stopped eating since :-)  Parker was released four days later and we were able to take him home straight from the hospital. He has been in our arms ever since!  He is one happy, healthy, handsome baby boy!
     We apologize for those friends and family to whom this comes as a shock. As you can tell from our story, it was quite the shock for us as well. :-) As much as we wanted to shout our news from the rooftops, we needed to protect the privacy and grieving process of the birth family.  As of this past Monday, the birth parents have terminated parental rights and the adoption agreement has been signed, so we are free to announce our exciting news! We knew we were waiting for someone, I am so glad that someone was Parker.  He was worth all the wait!
     As I complete this post, I can’t help but feel overwhelmed with gratitude for the family and friends who were true life lines for us during this intense time.  Words can’t express how grateful we are for the prayers and support sent our way these last two months!  I am filled with gratitude and love for Parker's incredible birth family who had the courage to make the most difficult, agonizing decision of love.  Most importantly, I am overwhelmed with gratitude for a Heavenly Father who hears and answers prayers.  I am grateful for His wisdom and guidance.  This was the greatest affirmation to us that Heavenly Father is fully aware of each of us. He knows our desires and He has a perfect plan for us, even if it is not in the way or time we expect. Miracles.Do.Happen.